The following is a column I couldn't unload on Ragan but that still wanted to get off my chest. I'd love to hear your reaction. —David
My friend is widely curious and knowledgeable in a hundred areas I’m not. He’s a good talker, so I usually don’t mind his lectures on topics like cooking meatloaf, Indian tribes, birds, words, Web sites and natural history.
I don’t listen to him on golf, on cars or corporate communications. And there’s one other lecture I don’t appreciate. It’s about what I do for a living. I call it the “A Reporter Isn’t Your Friend” harangue.
I’ve let this lecture go before, but my pal keeps repeating it, and with escalating urgency lately. Perhaps he is hoping I’ll offer a response other than to change the subject.
He says the best advice he ever gave his kids, the best advice he ever gave anybody, is, “Don’t talk to reporters.”
Why? Because his considerable experience with reporters tells him they have their own interests and usually wind up using your comments in a way that will embarrass you by making you appear self-important, oafish, selfish, overly serious, overly glib or otherwise ridiculous.
(Have I got that about right, old pal?)
His main observation agrees with my own experience. In most of the dozen or more instances when I’ve been quoted in the paper or appeared on local TV news, I’ve felt the report subtly misrepresented my view of the situation. And in some of those situations, I’ve felt I came off looking like a hysterical fool or a grandiose boob.
But of course, I am those things at times, which leads to my first answer to my friend: If you don’t like reporters, you might not like mirrors either. Unless he or she is writing about you directly, a reporter is usually trying to get your perspective on another story and has no interest in portraying you as anything other than a credible observer. Maybe newspaper articles aren’t the only places you occasionally come off looking like a goof.
My second answer is: You’ve been painting your own little self-portrait all day, every day of your life. The reporter has been on this story for about five hours. Guess what? This newspaper sketch is bound to appear vulgar to you, this summary of your life will inevitably seem simplistic and lopsided. You see yourself as a massive intellectual, the reporter describes you as a freelance accountant. That’s because neither the reporter nor the audience cares how much you love James Joyce.
My third answer is: It doesn’t matter if your precious vanity is slightly mussed up by a story. So you’re quoted in a profile of your boss and you come across sounding like a brown-noser or a showboat and your colleagues make fun of you. To paraphrase some good advice: You wouldn’t worry so much about what people thought of your quotes in the paper if you realized they didn’t think about your quotes at all.
My fourth answer is: Of course reporters aren’t your friends, fool! If they’re any good, their only friends are their readers, a group that comprises vast and varied interests far beyond your own narrow scope. A reporter owes you nothing more than getting your quote right and honoring the basic context in which he or she believes you offered it. How could you ever be so naïve as to think that you could control the mind of the reporter to the extent he’ll write the story from your own intricately manufactured and infinitely convoluted frame of mind?
My final answer is a question: What if everyone took your advice and nobody talked to reporters? Look: Reporters are not Unbiased Portrayers of Reality. Far from it. But even in this age of general journalistic decline, reporters—and the dumb jamokes who talk to them—are the only reason the world ever hears about interesting people who are not running for office or acting on TV. And their investigations are often the only way a community has of exposing corruption or bringing a social injustice to the fore. And their papers and TV news shows and Web sites are still the only common areas where the town, the state, the nation and the world meet to exchange information and agree upon a version of reality.
Should everyone be more cautious talking to a reporter than talking to a friend? Um, yes. But a society full of sadder and wiser girls like my friend is a scary prospect to this reporter—and a dim prospect for civilization, to boot.
If you don’t want to talk to reporters, don’t talk to the reporters—and for heaven’s sake, don’t keep talking to reporters between your quarterly harangues about the un-wisdom of talking to reporters!—but don’t tell your kids not to talk to reporters. I might want to interview them about you when you’re gone.
“Now, I think I remember your dad had a certain philosophy about talking to reporters ….”
Comments (15)
David: I don't know your friend, and therefore can't comment on his/her foibles. However, I believe that in your relatively balanced review of the approach reporters take to interviewing sources, you left out the one item that represents the 1,000 lb. pink elephant in the corner.
I'm referring, of course, to the fact that the newspapers and networks which employ most reporters these days are "big businesses", and therefore to them ratings points and subscription numbers are the only criterion for publishing or not publishing a story, as well as for determining the "slant" of said stories. In my experience this rarely bodes well for a free and open press.
My perspective on reporters these days is similar to my perspective on politicians. When they got into this racket it was for all the right reasons: to make a difference, to expose corruption, to make the world a more honourable (or at least honest) place. Unfortunately, the "system" in which both of those groups of professionals have to work forces them to make the kinds of trade-offs that ultimately saps their ability to do what they took this job for in the first place. In terms of reporters that seems to create the types your friend (and many other people) are so cynical about.
Where politicans are concerned, I've thrown up my hands in despair.
I see a sliver of hope for reporters, but only if they write for a small privately owned paper, or on the internet, where no old white guy in a suit who's more worried about his quarterly dividends than the freedom and responsibility of the press gets to tell said reporters what to write and how.
Posted by Kristen | March 4, 2008 8:01 AM
Posted on March 4, 2008 08:01
Kristen, agreed that corporate ownership has desperately messed up the press. It has virtually eliminated whole kinds of stories (like, "investigative" ones) and it has encouraged other kinds (like, stories about pretty girls who are missing). The corporate press is more cautious than it ought to be, and more shallow.
But we're not quite to EVIL yet. To say corporate ownership of the media means people shouldn't talk to reporters or read any corporate-owned newspapers or watch any corporate-owned TV: This seems a bit over the top.
Posted by David Murray | March 4, 2008 9:22 AM
Posted on March 4, 2008 09:22
First off I never used the word "evil" and I also didn't (at least it wasn't my intent to) suggest that people shouldn't talk to reporters. Despite how screwed up this system has become, it is the system we have, and so I don't believe it is an option, at least not a viable option, to simply refuse to talk.
That said, I must confess that I frankly would support more people boycotting the "big" news organizations completely, and throwing their support (and their dollars) behind the development of some kind of truly independent press organization.
The most insidious aspect of the "corporate" news organizations to me, is that most people who consume it have absolutely no clue whatsoever, that the "news" they watch on Fox or CNN is driven as much by the decisions of bean counters as it is by legitimate news gathering techniques, and that it is often very one-dimensional as opposed to "neutral" which is what most people like to think "news" is.
People think therefore, that they know what is going on in the world by watching the news at 6 p.m, when the actual fact is that to have a truly well-rounded perspective on almost any issue, you need to access at least three different news sources for each issue under discussion. How many people do YOU know who actually do that on a daily basis, between jobs, families and other obligations.
This is why so many people don't understand the REAL repercussions likely to result from things like, you know, the government starting a war in a foreign country for no legitimate reason?
Ok, I'm going to stop. See, here's me getting down off my soapbox.
Posted by Kristen | March 4, 2008 10:52 AM
Posted on March 4, 2008 10:52
Legitimate news-gathering techniques? What are those?
Anyone remember the TV show Lou Grant? I loved that program.
Posted by Diane | March 4, 2008 11:42 AM
Posted on March 4, 2008 11:42
You've got spunk, Murray. I hate spunk.
Posted by Ron Shewchuk | March 4, 2008 12:14 PM
Posted on March 4, 2008 12:14
Ron - wasn't that quote actually from the Mary Tyler Moore show? I mean, it was the character of Lou Grant who said it, so I'm probably just whining over semantics here, but, well, it's the proof-reader in me - I can't help myself.
Posted by Kristen | March 4, 2008 12:42 PM
Posted on March 4, 2008 12:42
No, Kristen; technically speaking, it's the fact-checker in you.
Posted by David Murray | March 4, 2008 1:03 PM
Posted on March 4, 2008 13:03
Yes, Lou told Mary she had spunk. She looked pleased with herself, at which point he enlightened her while grouching off.
Posted by Diane | March 4, 2008 2:13 PM
Posted on March 4, 2008 14:13
We stumbled across "The Insider" on some movie channel last night and I was spellbound: "60 Minutes" (Pacino) and a whistleblower (Crowe) take on Big Tobacco and win. I know it's been movie-cized and it's 9 years old, but still, there ARE reporters and publications and shows out there who are greedy for only one thing: the truth.
I always told my boss (head of a state agency) that reporters aren't our friends but they aren't our enemy, either, and that if we're square with them, they'll be square with us, usually (there are no guarantees in life). The minute you get subtle or evasive, you're toast--SO DON'T DO THAT, because they're better at what they do than you are at covering up.
Posted by Jane Greer | March 4, 2008 2:16 PM
Posted on March 4, 2008 14:16
(Oooh, Jane, have you seen the new George Carlin HBO show? "It's all bullshit, folks. And it's bad for ya." Not his best, but it's up your personal message alley, and you ought to see it.)
Posted by David Murray | March 4, 2008 2:33 PM
Posted on March 4, 2008 14:33
It's up my WHAT??? :-)
Posted by Jane Greer | March 4, 2008 2:40 PM
Posted on March 4, 2008 14:40
Yes, I was fully aware that the reference I made was to the Lou Grant character in an episode of the MTM show and not from Lou Grant the series. I don't think fact-checking or proofreading should apply to mindless free association in a blog comment. But I need to remind myself that this is a forum for curmudgeons, cranks and complainers, of which I am a proud and active member.
Posted by Ron Shewchuk | March 4, 2008 3:02 PM
Posted on March 4, 2008 15:02
Sorry, Jane. I meant your "message driver." My bad. Just see it!
Posted by David Murray | March 4, 2008 3:04 PM
Posted on March 4, 2008 15:04
Ron - Point taken.
Posted by Kristen | March 4, 2008 3:23 PM
Posted on March 4, 2008 15:23
Kristen - thanks. And, as my teenage daughter says, often, after she has said something that might be interpreted as unjustly critical, "No fence."
Posted by Ron Shewchuk | March 4, 2008 3:44 PM
Posted on March 4, 2008 15:44