Ho, ho, ho!

It’s time to celebrate the holidays – any holiday you choose!

Many companies, despite the economy, are still having holiday parties.

And, this always seems to be a time where people give themselves permission to look and act stupid.

Let me give you some guidelines to avoid making career-limiting moves.

Keep in mind when it is a business party, that business is the primary consideration. These people are your employees, colleagues, supervisors, clients – they have long memories!

For example, one woman I know didn’t get a promotion two years after a holiday event. Her manner of dress was deemed inappropriate (OK, she looked like a hooker!) – and people doubted her judgment.

All the hard work she produced didn’t matter – poor judgment in dress at one party was enough to squash her promotion hopes!

I have numerous examples of what alcohol does to judgment. Whether it is saying stupid things, kissing and groping under the mistletoe, or dancing the latest bump and grind moves – alcohol is no excuse.

Then, there are the people who forget it is a party. They actually want to talk business! Get a life – parties are a time to mix and mingle, don’t be a bore.

Common courtesies count at holiday events, too. For example, remember to RSVP – and, if you are bringing a guest, let people know.

Arrive on time, don’t overstay your welcome, and send a thank-you note to the host or hosts.

After years of attending these events, I can assure you that you can make a good impression, and have fun while you are also being festive.

You never want to wake up the next day with regrets!

Happy holidays!