If it's love, you'll listen
We were conducting a brainstorming session for a “Trust” initiative in the wake of lay-offs. Someone suggested posting the initiative’s “Key Behaviors” on the inside doors of restroom stalls. “Create Transparency” and “Produce Results” won by a furlong.
That burst of creativity happens all the time when you talk to people who are not communicators by profession. They’re not inhibited by “rules.” They don’t know you’re not supposed to “leap to tactics.” They’ve never heard of IABC.
And in the economic downturn, they often find themselves with another job, in addition to the one they’re paid to do: managing communication support for their projects.
So we’ve been working a bit lately on the Trail with a Mix of people outside the field: executives, scientists, technicians, front-line employees and other project managers. It’s instructive to work closely with them on communication, because they open a window to how people who are not communicators, by profession, view our field.
• The CEO of a major Foundation that supports children told us he wants more in-depth conversations between his field people and the community, around such issues as, for example, nutrition and education: What do you eat in the home? How many hours is the TV on? He wants his associates to record their conversations, their successes and failures, and publish them on a web site, as narratives, as an asset, and as a legacy. He said: “Learning is our profit.”
That is a candid and useful view on how face-to-face and online can work together.
• In our planning discussion on Trust, the group identified their goals as these:
o Having conversations with purpose
o Regarding knowledge as something to be shared, not withheld
o Kindness and courtesy, linked to profitability
o Candor and transparency around personality conflicts
Those are all communication issues; you’d expect them to surface around a Trust initiative, as Trust is the base on which successful communication is built.
The Foundation executive and the members of the Trust team are smart, hard-working people of good will – our people, our audiences, the ones we’re paid to serve. They want their organizations to succeed, they know that communication is essential to that success, they respect technology, but they won’t back down on the necessity of difficult conversations.
That’s not to discount the value of political rhetoric. In a brainstorming session on tactics, one participant expressed his disagreement with a proposal by saying: “I’m not connecting to the idea.” That tactic was worth the trip alone, and here’s why:
Consultants listen for a living: We learn everything we know from our client partners. I used that lever – “I’m not connecting to the idea” – the following weekend, when my wife Rebecca suggested we see “Nights in Rodanthe.”
Thanks, Dave.
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